At times, I receive e-mails from individuals who have discovered the Law of Attraction, put it into practice yet they feel stuck in the process or feel like there is something holding back. They go on to tell me they have completely clear desires and are not having issue with focusing. They get clear and stay focused on their need but, it appears to be so slow in coming or out of their reach entirely.
Let me show you one such example of these e-mails– “I have actually been trying to attract an excellent mate into my life and have truly concentrated on it for the past three months consistently. I have actually pasted positive confirmations to keep me on track on my washroom mirror with stuff like ‘I am married now to a wonderful individual’. I likewise reviewed every early morning and mid-day and night a favorable confirmation that is specific to drawing in a fantastic mate who harmonizes with me on every level. I likewise recorded a cd that I play on repeat that I now have an excellent spouse and which I have attracted this great person to myself, and other positive sayings. I play it and repeat the the affirmations on it every night. I actually believe that the perfect person will come to me, but …”.
Could it be that this person is focusing too much? Maybe they are overdoing it? Surely, all these confirmations and favorable statements must have produced the preferred outcome by now. It seems to me this person is most likely focusing too much on their desire and actually triggering resistance at some level to permitting the Law of Attraction to deliver.
Let me explain 3 things about how the Law of Attraction works–
Once you have a clear image in your mind about your need and feel satisfied with the mental picture and you add great sensations to enhance it, then the Law of Attraction responds to your desire loud and clear and the process of manifestation is set in activity.
If you do nothing more than get crystal clear, you will receive your desire in the most convenient most efficient way it is how the Law works.
The Law of Attraction does not actually care or pay attention to your words, but DOES respond to how you really feel about this desire and acts on it. Affirmations are great in the right context but when you make affirmations that are not real, like: “I have a wonderful partner”– when you don’t, your vibration reacts the opposite and the Law of Attraction just gets your opposite vibration of “I don’t have a partner.” Even adding more confirmations will only serve to nullifying your desire with this opposing vibration.
Exactly what ARE you supposed to do with that need you’ve been so clear about?
If I could explain it in the sense of how you see with your eyes, hold it in your periphery vision, rather than your center of attention.
Right here’s an exercise that will demonstrate how you can do that–
Keep your focus on this short article on the display of your computer system. Now, tell me, what do you see on your far? Do not move your eyes, simply observe exactly what exists.
OK, now tell me, what is in the upper left field? Exactly what is at the top of your field of vision?
You DO know exactly what is there without concentrating on the item directly or putting your full attention to it.
Now, let’s pretend that one of the products in your periphery is a lamp and you desire to turn it on. You move your eyes, so that the lamp is the focus of your vision, BRIEFLY, while you turn it on– then return your focus to this display.
This is an example of a great method to hold your clearly defined needs: once you have clearly mentioned or written your desire, hold it in the periphery of your vision. Then go about with other things that you take pleasure in. You’ll know or get a sense when to shift your focus back to your need– possibly you have actually changed your mind about a detail– or you just take pleasure in picturing what it feels like to be living the full experience of your need.
I have a practice of composing out my need statement making use of the 3-Phrases that raise my vibration, then I put it away in a file-folder. The file folder is in my left peripheral vision when I’m at my computer system. I generally tend to ‘forget it’ till it is fulfilled. Then I go to recover that certain “Need Statement” and discover, to my absolute delight, that EVERYTHING I requested has actually become a reality!
The bottom line is truly this: If concentrating on your desire feels good, delightful, spirited and amazing, then by all means, enjoy offering it your attention. If you are requiring yourself to focus and repeat constant affirmations to affirm your desire– you are really causing resistance that can cause unnecessary delay. Again, if you have actually been observing the length of time your desire has not yet manifested– this is another form of subtle resistance and you are decreasing the process.
Think about “Permitting”, it suggests letting the Law of Attraction do it’s job by getting out of the way.
When you stay focused on the need and yet, it appears to be so slow-moving in coming or out of reach entirely, resistance at some level is the primary cause.
Yes, this individual is most likely focusing too much on their need and really causing resistance compared to enabling the Law of Attraction to provide.
The bottom line is truly this: If concentrating on your need feels excellent, wonderful, spirited and amazing, then by all ways, enjoy giving it attention. Just don’t let your desire consume you to the point of over-kill and work against the life you desire.
The Law Of Non-Resistance
“The Law Of Non-Resistance is one of the most overlooked laws and also the most powerful. Whatever you resist persists. This means that the things that you hate grow stronger in your life…”